Just did a Bridge Mayers test. Somehow I was disheartened by the results. Either it doesn’t represent who I am, or who I feel I am, or perhaps it doesn’t represent who I truly want to be.

Administrator sounds terribly boring, and I am pretty convinced it doesn’t match me, nor my personality. Part of these traits are true, while others are far from it. Especially in the departments of the jobs I am working. Those who know me could leave a comment, and tell me wether they see me this way.

Aren’t you sick of this victim mentality, being propagated as the new norm? The people who made it for themselves are being penalized for their success, because of incompetence of lower tier groups that are becoming the new norm. If you are successful in the land of the fat, than you are clearly a cruel bully.

Any success is penalized, any form of reward system is reversed, just so pathetic people, who don’t care of themselves, yet live in America are crying, pulling everyone else down. This reflects on the politics as well. Tell you what, fuck political correctness, it got us into this mess in the first place.

What initiated this rant?

There is a “former fat girl” (now a fat grown up), who is apparently offended by Abercrombie’s CEO insinuation that he wants to sell his clothes only to cool people.

And than in the defense of the cool people, some guy went out there and gave Abercrombie’s clothes to homeless people. Now it wouldn’t be a problem, if he did it out of the desire to help the homeless, but that douchebag did it for attention and proving an invalid point. He tooled the homeless people who aren’t cool by HIS standards, to “degrade” the value of the brand. Now tell me how this is not a form of bullying.

“Oh you suck so hard, let me give you these “cool clothes”, so I make them look like assholes”. Guess what, the only asshole in this case is you, because you’re playing around with homeless people, not out of helping the homeless people, but treating them like low value people, and BULLYING THEM, in fight against imaginary bullying. It’s outrageous, and totally defeats the purpose of your actions. Here is one of the rare intelligent comments on that post:

>”Take off your rose colored glasses. I’m not personally offended, nor is anyone here really, we’re just intelligent enough to see how this slights the homeless population. He’s trying to make a point at their expense. Sure, he’s giving them clothes, but it’s mostly to make a point and not because he actually cares about clothing the homeless or their plight. I mean, seriously?”

These two texts made me infuriated, because this is not what America is all about. If you are a capitalist, and you want to sell to elitist douchebags, why should that be called bullying? Whenever you do something that is not in accordance to the hive mind of slackers, you are labeled. You are labeled: a bully, a homophobe, elitist… The list is to long for this blog post.

Cry babies don’t even know what bullying is, because their emotions are made of satin silk

I was a victim of bullying in first grade of high school. It was abusive physical type of bullying, where I got my ass kicked on multiple occasions. But it didn’t crush my spirit, and I always tried to kick back. Yes, I was on the ground, yes the guy slammed me to the walls, and I was younger and couldn’t defend myself.

The whole ordeal was leaving a permanent scar on me, but guess what. I survived, and I thrived, despite the problem. The whole thing thought me how to stand up for myself. How to gather my friends, and look for solutions to problems, just like you would in real life. It was a struck of reality. It was a part of my life experience. And life isn’t all flowers, roses and butterflies.

When your biggest problem in life is that you’re fat, it’s the least of the worlds problems. It’s YOUR problem. On the other side of the planet there are people starving to death, and you worry that someone called you fat, and expect sympathy? Your problems are pathetic and meaningless, because you suffered from “verbal abuse”. If you can’t sustain critique from society, than you aren’t particularly a good person to begin with.

The purpose of critique is to give person a signal that there is something wrong with him, and that he needs to take action to do something about it. Loose weight, hit the iron, change the way you eat garbage food that is served to you. Learn nutrition, figure out what’s wrong with you. It’s not others people fault that you’re fat. And it’s certainly not their fault that they are cool and that you suck.

Being fat is choice, it’s not the permanent condition like cancer. It’s something you can work on. It takes energy and it can be hard, but it’s worth it. And if you choose to be fat, please choose to shut up as well, and let healthy people live their lives the way they want to. Don’t try to be a guilt tripping BULLY and proclaim people bullies, because they buy clothes for cool people.